Cupcakes, New books, and a Sugar Rush

So today I had a 'ME' day. See a free movie, get a Cupcake, buy a new book... seems easy, right? Seem like a stress less day... well no stress but deffly not an easy day.

First the movie wasn't all that I'm glad it was free.. I met this interesting woman in the show, She told me all about this secret remedy for feeling better and having more energy. It's spiritual and seems easy enuff. Imma try it and see if it works. I got out of the show in time to caught the 1:12pm bus but missed it 'cause I looked at the wrong bus stop time. So I spent time takin' pics of myself being upset cause I missed the bus lol. This did make me feel a bit better, laughing at myself... So the bus gets there 2:45pm yea, and now I'm off to B&N to get a new book from 'The looking glass wars' Series. Yea!!! It's only 8 bucks!! I gotta gift card, yeeeaa!! but first let's stop by Toys R us. Let me tell you, I almost got the Hello Kitty bingo game. It's really cute and it was only $10. I spent too much money on layaway, bills, and stuff for the home, so I'm on a tight budget. Maybe next time 'Kitty'....

I go to B & N I'm lookin around and there's soo many books I want, Imma Dork and Loving it!! So the book I want is not $8 it's $14 in the store!! Yea it's only $8 ONLINE... What?!!? man, people really take the Joy outta shopping...I can't treat myself to a $14 dollar book ths rip 'cause I've been treating myself to everything!!! So now it's grown-up time I've been spending too much money on everything I want and my check was still short for our Cali Va-Cay, One of the guys that worked there helped me out with finding things and told me about Meditated coloring. I forget the name but he said it relaxes you and the Monks do it. I'm thinkin Wow, two in one day, I'm learning a lot. Couldn't get the kit more money I don't have, so I just grab a Mag, $4 bucks, cool.

Now to Cakes on Walnut....oh but wait, it's sunday and they're closed... Nooooooo!!! Well now I'm getting sad, no book, not enuff money, no Cupcakes... this is turning out to be a not-so-good-day. As I'm waitin at the bus terminal I get a great idea ~ding~ I'll see if the Library has the book... To the library!!!! The one I want is popular, it's checked out, nooo!!! hold on I'm mistaking. The book I'm tryin to get is part of of another series not the next book from the last one I read, I get the next book 'Seeing Red'. Yeaaa!! Things are looking up... I leaving the Library feeling betta. I decide to cut thru L. Square mall ooooh I should get a cookie from Art Mart, great idea 'cause today was BOGO on the cookies.. Bought an Oatmeal gotta Chocolate Chunk for free!!! Hell yeah!!! The End.... hehehehe

There's a much more deadly plague.....

Hello Kiddies,

Ok, I wanna talk about something that’s plaguing our neighborhoods, our lives even… No not Swine Flu, H1N1, or AIDS something bigger…. I call it “Hatetarus Fabrications” Pronounced Hate-Tar-Rus. Which means People lying about people hating’ on them. You’ve seen it: some girl is dresses bogus, people are staring at her ‘cause she looks crazy. What does she say “Ooh they Hatin’ on me cause I look good!” This has become an epidemic! people everywhere have been fabricating haterism, when there is none. They know damn well no one wants what the got, ‘cause they ain’t got Shit. Their man ain’t about nothing no job, 8 kids, 7 baby’s mamas. Girl, you the only one that want him!!

Men are the worst with it, he’ll have $20.00 bucks and swear everybody hatin’ on him ‘cause he got money. Please stop this; they got their kids doing it. It’s sad really, If someone say something negative to you, they not always Hatin’ maybe they telling the truth. Yes the truth hurts but are we that scared of known something that'll make us better? We label everything as "Hatin' on me" That's too sad. The Rappers have come down with a serious case of 'Hatetarus Fabrications', I thinks this is were it started actually. Always tryna make themselves out to be better than, 'Cause suckas drinking Hateraid on me, can't you see", blah, blah, blah... Man, you in Jail! So what if you got Millions you locked up, Chuck!! I'm in denial, Haters do exist, but really they are not everywhere you are... they don't even know you. So please take heed: Dude, maybe you do need a vasectomy, seeing that you like to fuck sooooo much with out protection.
And Girl, maybe you’re too grown for that little ass Dress...No one wants to hear negative things, but sometime people just might be tryna to help you. Just think about it. Until then…..

By the way The Hip-Hop project @ the Krannert was amazing!!! Spoken-word, singing, dancing, Dj’s all rolled into one, I was blown away. God has blessed me soo much I just gotta give thanks….. Thanks!!! Hehehe

Ellnora, Doing bad, and broken sandals

Hey kiddie,
So this past week-end was Ellnora:Guitar fest!! We had tickets to see Keb'Mo, (blues, man) If you don't know now you do, this Guy was off the hook!! (Ya' you know it 90's, baby!!) We had great seat too. Ya'll need to check this guy out.

I went to see that Tyler Perry movie 'I can do bad all by myself'; I'm not a Medea fan, I've seen most of her movies. But never paid to see them (hehe) It was way better than I thought it would be, really. This movie was funny and sad at the same time. You gotta see it.

So tomorrow I'm off to the Chi for the Shecky's girls nite out. I'm going shopping and I might even get to see the Harry Potter Exhibit. I bought some really cute Sandals for this wonderful occasion, but they were sooo cute I've been wearing them, well today... I was pounding the Pavement looking for another gig (job) I went to Gordmans, T.J Maxx, even office depot. A sistah gotta stay fly, so I need more money to do that. Well after all that walking and bus rinding I stumble on a rock and *snap* Cute Sandal For Chicago breaks. I know right???!! So I get on the bus back home to get the receipt to take them back. I go all the way home get receipt get back on the bus. Now that 4 buses in total if your counting. Go to Macy's and of course... that's the last pair........ yes I know...

Tryna keep it short and Sweet

Next time I'll be gabbing about the VMA'S latas

The Mall & Me...

Hey everyone,

It's Fall and you know what??? The Sales are on..... You're on a budget that's fine cause all the summer wear is on clearance. You can get really great stuff for next summer.

I spend the day taking care of home, My guy is going outta town so I washed some clothes, packed some snacks and got a playaway(book on tape) for his trip.



Then I hitt up the Mall!! I haven't been shopping in sooo long. I went by myself and loved it!!! It's been a while, spending time with myself just made me feel great! I love me!!! hehehehe I hadn't notice I haven't had any Me-time in a long time. I was needed it, and Tae gone for 4 days. It's a good thing, we haven't spent anytime away for each other it a while. I know he needs some time from me, I can work a nerve!



While shopping I took as long as I wanted, didn't run for a bus, or have to convince someone they looked great a dress or anything totally drama free. I feel amazing.... Tomorrow I'm having a spa day, in my apt of course. Just relaxing and enjoying some time to myself. First I gotta clean the Apartment. I'mma try to go to church, don't know if I'll make it. Wish me luck! I'll let Cha know all about day 2 with Me.....

Express Yourself... love's Question

Remember Madonna's 1989 Express yourself started with these words:
"Don't go for second best baby Put your love to the test You know, you know, you've got to Make him express how he feels And maybe then you'll know your love is real?"

What does it mean? I think it's about Testing love, not proving it. I woke this Morning with this song in my head. I have no idea as to why, it was just there. As I hummed the chours I got to thinking about the words. We have all tested Love's endurance, doing crazy things to see how much He/She really loves you. That's cool; but what about friendship? Why aren't friendships tested? I think it should be, I have done a lot of house cleaning lately: Cleaning, re-shelving, throwing out the trash, sorta speak. lol I thought that I had to have "bad people" in my life, ya' know make you stronger, to be able to fight off negativity. I thought that even though some people aren't as positive or friendly they shouldn't be denied my friendship. By-the-way which is Awesome!!! As a friend I rock out loud and on propose. Not being cocky, just stating the facts..

Yes, friendships needs to be a two-way street. I'm learning this now at 33, hey I'm not slow just slow learning (hehehe) Some bad deals have me changing it up. So I have started to put people in Categories: Party People; Benefits Bleeders; and My Peeps!

The Party People are just that we kickit, talk shit, get it crackin' these people no nothing about me. Not the real me, I never tell them anything that they can use against me, and they will. They are great to party with but not to know.

Benefits Bleeder they're not "bad Poeple"it's just that nothing goes right for them, they suck you dry if you let them. They have been soo beat down by others that they want you to be in the mud with them. They are soo negative and lifeless. They refuse to take the bad things and make them stronger. I just offer an ear a shoulder to cry on. But this can be so draining so I only talk to them once a month. lol

lastly My Peeps! These are my real friends, people I've been to Hell and back with. These people are full of encouraging words and that try to build you up. That adds something to your life not take away.

I didn't mean for this to be so long but it is.. So maybe it's time to look into your life and do some Friendship testing ang make up some Categories of your own.....

Everything that's right now

Hello World,

Let's get started shall we, I'm excited about finding a outlet to express myself. This Blog will be about many things: Life, Love, Movies, Fashion, Food, upcoming events, and everything in between. hehe I'm a Artist/Scorpio/CrazyInLove Black SuperWoman and it feels good to be alive. So Here I am ya'll.

'Till next time,,,